I told my son he needs 5 go-to meals—dishes that take time, that say ‘I got you’ when life gets loud. Not just for dates or dinner parties, but for joy, grief, self-care, celebration, showing up. I made pozole last month for a friend who just had a baby and whew—me and her oldest son turned that kitchen into a full experience. What’s one dish you make when someone needs to feel held?